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Life is not meant to be a bag of lemons you can’t make a decent lemonade out of. 

We’re not meant to just get by, live in anxiety and feel desperate about what our futures might bring. Life is meant to be 50/50 not tipping the scale way over the other side.

Whatever happened in our past isn’t meant to rule our future.

I know all too well. I went through years of hardship, spinning my wheels, trying things, reading self-help books, trying to implement all the things and I seemed to be living through Groundhog Day. I always came from a place of feeling hard done by, thought I was at the mercy of others and not grasping why things were happening to me.

Situations would just repeat themselves over and over again, different scenarios, different players yet the same outcome. Broken relationships, lost friendships, lots of sadness, tears, anxiety and anger. All things I didn’t know how to deal with. Drama and despair were my best friends. While this was going on in the background, I portrayed a perfect life to the outside. Always dressed immaculately, hair coiffed, make up perfect. 

For the longest time I couldn’t figure out what was happening. My life didn’t start to get on track until I finally understood what was at the base of all the outcomes I was having in my life. When that clicked, I was able to make changes.

  • I kicked the people pleasing to the curb by finally being able to set firm boundaries for myself and respect them.
  • I learned to speak up for myself.
  • I learned to regulate my emotions and feel them in the moment as they were showing up not bottle them up until I could no longer hold them in and I’d explode (generally at the most inappropriate moments).
  • I learned it’s okay to just be me. I don’t need to pretend to be someone else to be accepted.
  • I learned to ask for what I want and have my own back. My fear of rocking the boat has immensely reduced.
  • I learned to better manage my money.
  • I learned to respect and value myself.

There are so many other things that have changed for me. It’s mind-blowing to see and this is possible for you too. 

You can change, you can learn all these things as well. This journey is priceless.

If you feel this way too, I can help. Bring whatever you’re dealing with to the table! Let’s look at it, uncover what’s happening in the background and see why you’re experiencing life as it is right now. 

Imagine this:

You feel more at ease within yourself. You have less anxiety and your overthinking is so much better. You don’t obsess over every detail anymore because you know things don’t have to be absolutely perfect. Your resentment for certain situations and people in your life has disappeared because you know you can deal with anything and you can handle anything that is thrown at you.

You’re earning more money, you’re doing more of what you love and you’re finally taking action towards the goals you’ve been dreaming about for so long. 

When you don’t feel like doing something when asked, you simply say no and there’s no guilt attached to it. Your fear of rocking the boat has gotten so much less and life feels a bit easier to navigate. 

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